It's summer time!! So I send a huge congratulations to all my friends who just graduated. I wish you all the best in your future, and most of all in your future relationships. Happiness at home will help you grow and thrive at work!
Everyone gets happier in the summer. It's a fact. There's more sunshine which makes us produce more melatonin and serotonin, which are chemicals that make us happy. Point proven: we love summer. And who doesn't love a little summer romance? It's a happy time of year so live it up, and if you get the chance, live it up with someone else. I am all for summer flings. I think they give you someone to go out and play volleyball, run, and goof around with. Going outside to soak up all the sunshine is even more enjoyable when you are doing it with someone who shows you a good time.
That being said, take them as they are: flings. If you go into a summer fling with the knowledge and expectations of it being short term, it has the potential to be a ton of fun. If you are wanting something more serious than that, you better make sure the other person knows. He or she may be looking for something more serious, but you don't want to be disappointed at the end of the summer if they cut the cord.
My advice on summer flings is try not to label it or categorize anything. Just enjoy hanging out with everyone. Spend time with the people you like and instead of wasting time trying to figure things out, spend more time with more people you like. Take time to do the things you want and if you meet someone, just have fun with it. Doing that will definitely make this an awesome summer.